i have been trying for days  to fix my menu bar. in the pix below you will see that one idem is below the rest of the menu bar and an empty space. how would i go about puting the item back on the same row as all the other items?

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It looks like your menu bar has just gotten too long. Can you reorganize it to have fewer options at the main level, or shorten the text of some selections?

below is my full menu bar

hit post to many times. i think there should be a delete post option for when this happens

im going to try to add a chat room tab (i was originally going to put it under members but if i can bump the other 4 items to the bottom right along with the status update i will be happy. it just looks unorganized right now.

Hmmm - the problem is that the theme you chose really didn't leave you room to add anything to the Main menu.  You could put 'Platoon' under the 'Members' option.

In the theme I used, the menu bar doesn't use those buttons at all and has a ton of room for additions.  (See below)

how would i go about doing that? im trying to figure it out for a chat room page but so far no luck.

Not sure which question you're asking, but I'm going to assume it's the easier one - how to change the Main menu.

Click 'Admin Panel' in upper right. Click 'Admin Panel' again on middle left to make Domain Seller nagware go away. Scroll down to 'Content' section and click 'Edit Menu'.

To add a new option to any menu, click '+ Add Menu Link' and fill in the form to set it up. Once the system puts it at the end, just click and drag it to where you want it to be.

i added member chat to the menu bar. tweaked a few others to slide the far right items to a second row. below is a pix. do you have any idea how i can eliminate the spacer that is at the far left on the 2nd row. if i can just delete it some how i would be very happy. btw thank you for your help so far. 

If you copy paste this into the custom css box and save it should give you a bit more room on your topmenu:

you could also add this if you want the seperator even smaller:

how would i get to the custom css box