I know that and to become a member on our site you need to be added as member. So no one is supposed to pop out as member.
Second of all, the problem, Evie is that I am becoming a member of the sites I've never even visited. Yesterday there were three different sites there that I've heard, well yesterday about when they appeared there.
Also, I could log in to those sites without ever registering there with my own password and look around. Didn't want to mess things for them, but I am sure I had too much permissions for someone not ever registering there and for sure I've never applied for newsletter from them in the first place.
By the way, I am no longer a member on those sites, I guess they deleted me from a member list.